Janet Bertram Desmond, 88, passed away unexpected and peacefully on Dec. 1, 2017, in Henderson, Nev.
Janet was born July 29, 1929, in New York City, N.Y. She is survived by her husband, Patrick A. Desmond of Henderson, Nev.; son, Robert A. Gonano III of John’s Island, S.C.; stepsons, Patrick C. Desmond of Viera, Fla., and Michael D. Desmond of St. Marys. Other survivors include sister and brothers-in-law, Margaret and Eddie Gonano of Keedysville, Md.; granddaughters, Renee M. Gonano of Greenville, N.C., Caity M. Gonano of Pittsburgh, Pa., Julie Daily of Viera, Fla., Jamie Thurston of Hudson, N.H., and Andrew M. Desmond of Everette, Wash.; and a great-granddaughter, Kylie McDuffie of Greenville, N.C.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Otto and Janet Bertram of New York City; first husband, Lt. Robert A. Gonano Jr., United States Air Force of Pittsburgh; brother-in-law, Sgt. Donald H. Gonano, United States Army of Pittsburgh; and grandson, Patrick W. Desmond of Viera, Fla.
Janet, known affectionately as Bert by many of her friends, cherished family and friends above all else. Other passions included Maryland crab cakes, watching golf, wine tasting and the game of bridge. Among the many wonderful traits admired by her friends was the fact she raised a family and lived a long life without ever learning to cook.
Janet attended Greenbrier College for Women in Lewisburg, W.Va., obtaining a degree in business administration. Shortly thereafter, she met and later married Robert A. Gonano Jr., a United States Naval Academy graduate. Following Robert’s death in an aviation accident, she was employed by Vitro Laboratory of Silver Springs, Md., in the personnel department. While there, she particularly enjoyed meeting and helping all those she encountered, making many lifelong friends.
Feeling the need for a change, Janet and son Robert relocated to Oxnard, Calif., in early 1970s where she worked in the administrative end of the vegetable processing industry. Janet met and later married Patrick A. Desmond in May 1980. They remained in Oxnard until Pat’s retirement in 1986, at which time they moved to Bullhead City, Ariz.
Janet’s time in Bullhead City was shared with her love of travel. From the Amazon jungle to Alaska’s highest peak, Janet and Pat saw and enjoyed the world. While many would naturally shy away from driving a 36-foot RV, not Janet. She logged many miles in the USA, Mexico and Canada behind the wheel of their RV. After many years traveling and finding Bullhead City a bit tame, in 2000 they moved to McDonald Ranch in Henderson where they loved looking down on the Las Vegas lights each evening.
Janet was active in many McDonald Ranch activities, but ultimately fell head over heels for the game of duplicate bridge. She loved the game and the many wonderful friends she found along the way in learning to play.
If so desired, memorial contributions may be made in Janet’s name to The Fisher Center for Alzheimer’s Research Foundation, 110 East 42nd St., 16th Floor, New York, NY 10017.
Janet will rest in peace in two beloved locations, in the Severn River alongside the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis, Md., where she married Robert A. Gonano Jr. many years ago and together with her husband Patrick, at the Southern Nevada Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Boulder City, Nev., upon his passing.
Arrangements entrusted to the Boulder City Family Mortuary of Boulder City, Nev.